We hear so much about the law of attraction. Most times it is in terms of how do I attract money into my life? I must restate that the law of attraction is a term that is over simplified and over used. First of all it is really not a law unto itself. It is a combination of 2 universal laws or principles. According the Hermetic philosophy there are 7 universal laws or principles. Any Law or principle is universal when it can apply on any plane of existence, whether it is mental, physical or spiritual. If it can not work on all levels it is not universal. The law of attraction is really a catch all phrase for the universal principals of cause and effect and vibration. Stating it as the law of attraction can simplify it for many but when It comes to practical application it can be confusing. So let’s look at a practical application of the law of attraction concept in romantic relationships.

Let’s start with defining the components of the law of attraction. The first component is the law of cause and effect. It simply means that every cause has an effect and every effect has a cause. In the case of the law of attraction, thought is cause. In other words the way you think(cause) has a definite effect on your reality. The second component is the most talked about component of the law of attraction and that is the law of vibration. The law of vibration simply states that nothing in the universe is at rest it vibrates. Of course anything that vibrates makes a sound or has a tone to it. We can use an analogy of a guitar string. When one plucks a guitar string it vibrates and makes a sound. When two sounds can resonate together they make beautiful music. This is the law of attraction broken down in its universal components.

When we consider the relationships that we have had or want to have the law of attraction comes into play. If you are a person that continually seems to get into bad relationships then you have to consider the two components of the law of attraction and why you seem to find these people. Or another way to look at it is how do you keep attracting these types? One of the main concepts that anyone has to understand about physical reality is that we create our reality. Our perception of reality is unique to each individual. No two people see anything alike. Therefore, we have to consider how we think about relationships and how the people will manifest themselves in our lives. Thought is cause. If you have a negative concept of how people will interact with you then you will attract those people into your experience that harmonize or vibrate with you. Your thoughts cause you to vibrate at a certain rate and the people that harmonize with you are the ones that you allow into your experience. The other people are all around you at any given time. From your perspective you simply notice the people that resonate on the same vibration as you. A great analogy of this is when you buy a new car. Have you ever noticed that when you get the new car how you see all the same cars as yours when you are driving the new car? They were there all the time but now you have the same car or resonate with these people and cars and they enter into your awareness. Nothing changed except your new perspective/car. This is the same thing that happens in relationships. You vibrate at a certain rate and the people that harmonize with you enter into your awareness.

If you are sick and tired of having the same type relationships then you simply have to change your vibration. You do this by changing your thought process. First of all you must know what it is that you want in that relationship. Have you ever heard someone say, “I don’t know what I want in a relationship, but I know what I don’t want?” these people wonder why they keep getting what they don’t want. The issue is that the universe is aware of one language. That language is the universal language of the mind. It sees pictures. The universe does not hear words. If your focus or the pictures in your mind are on what you don’t want, guess what the universe sends you? That’s right, they get exactly what they don’t want if that is all they can visualize. This is why it is so important to know what it is you want and be able to picture and visualize it. So if you are sick and tired of the bad relationships know that you are creating your reality. If you think you are the victim you have given away your power. Think about the good aspects of what you want and send those pictures to the universe. Know what you want and know thy self. As someone once said to me that I thought was a great analogy, “you can’t think like a hot dog and expect to attract a steak.” If you are a negative individual, do not expect to attract a positive type person. I guess if you are a beef hotdog you maybe can attract a steak but pretty soon a realization will occur that you are both different. That steak will have to move on. A steak and hot dog can not coexist on the same plate… er, I mean plane.

Remember as a soul you are here to learn and experience. Understand the universal laws. Understand them and how they work in depth. When you do, you will be able to create the world you desire. It does not happen over night. It can, but not usually. Being in human form our growth is definitely a process. Often times its painful. But we have the capacity to grow. You just have to be brave and set great expectations for yourself.

Are you a brave soul?

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